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Center for Change, Inc
(801) 224-8255
1790 N. State St
Provo, UT
 
Wasatch Mental Health
(801) 342-4207
750 North 200 West
Provo, UT
 
Insight Counseling Center
435-538-5108 or 659-0491
50 Shadow Ridge Ave
Park City, UT
 
Hope Christian Counseling
(801) 755-2013
1801 Vine St
Salt Lake City , UT
 
A Clear View Counseling
(801) 864-4027
9669 S 700 E
Sandy , UT
Prices and/or Promotions
$70.00

I Promise Foundation Addiction Treatment
(801) 472-9780
1987 north 550 west ( Riverside ave.)
Provo, UT
Prices and/or Promotions
Free substance abuse assessments when you mention this listing

Trinity Mission Health & Rehab
(801) 373-2630
1053 West 1020 South
Provo, UT
 
Paul S. Brandt, MS, LCSW
(801) 944-0944
8160 South Highland Drive (2000 East)
Sandy, UT
 
The Mindfulness Center
(801) 873-3149
376 East 400 South
Springville, UT
Prices and/or Promotions
Sliding scale/cash discount

Professional Counselor Licensing Board
(801) 530-6628
P.O. Box 146741
Salt Lake City, UT
 

Only the Lonely

The pain of social isolation can be harmful to your overall well-being.

by Claire Sykes

May 2010

It’s Saturday night and, once again, you’re home alone; your mind drifts to that party where everyone seemed to be having more fun than you. And then there’s all those overtime hours and solo drive-through dinners. It’s enough to make anyone feel downright lonely.

If you often feel lonely, you’re not alone. Roughly 60 million Americans are lonely right now, says John Cacioppo, PhD, a professor at the University of Chicago and author (with William Patrick) of Loneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection (Norton, www.scienceofloneliness.com ). Everyone can feel a little isolated sometimes. But when loneliness becomes chronic, interfering with daily life and hindering happiness, Cacioppo says it can “become a risk factor for illness and early death.”

Broken Connections

Being alone doesn’t always mean being lonely. “Loneliness is the emotional pain you feel when your need for connection isn’t being met,” Cacioppo says. “What matters is your subjective response to the situation.” It’s normal to feel lonely when your daughter takes off for college, your husband divorces you or your doctor tells you you’ve got cancer. If you live alone and have neither an intimate partner nor a satisfying social network, or if you struggle with money or health problems, you are also more likely to feel lonely. But if you enjoy being by yourself for hours or even weeks on end, that’s not loneliness—that’s solitude.

Humans are built to feel loneliness because we are basically social animals who need to bond and cooperate with others—as couples, families, communities and cultures—in order to thrive. It comes from our prehistoric days, when being alone meant getting eaten by that saber-toothed tiger.

“Our research today with brain scans and physiological markers suggests that loneliness is a biological construct, much like hunger, thirst or physical pain,” says Cacioppo. “It has evolved as a signal to change behavior, to prompt one to build or renew connections, and to promote social trust, cohesiveness and collective action, in order to ensure survival.”

In loneliness, perception is everything. “Some people are more sensitive to the pain of perceived isolation,” says Louise Hawkley, PhD, assistant professor of psychology at the University of Chicago. People can feel lonely even when they’ve got friends and family around. “There is some indication of a heritable component to loneliness,” notes Hawkley. “An insecure maternal-attachment bond as an infant or a negative event in childhood can trigger loneliness in genetically susceptible individuals.”

Because we’re wired to experience loss of social connection as a threat to our well-being, feeling lonely can also leave us feeling scared. “This may translate as a hypervigilance about others and their perceptions of you,” says Hawkley. “Without necessarily being aware of it, you m...

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